Lonely Hearts

     Have you ever gotten your heart broken by someone? Sometimes, it's good to have a little pick-me-up once in a while and in today's (second) post, Imma share a few tips with all of you.




 

     I just finished reading a book called 'The Lonely Hearts Club' by Elizabeth Eulberg. And it got me thinking...

     Haven't we all felt like guys are jerks at some point in our lives? Think about it. When you first got dumped or you found out that he cheated on you. Maybe when he started spreading rumours about your friend or making fun of you in front of everyone. Yes, we all have at some point.
     Heartbreak hurts. It makes you want to crawl up in a corner and sob. It makes you want to make him hurt too. I bet that sometimes, you wish that he would wrap his arms around you and whisper lovely things in your ear. But it rarely happens.
     What you really need is some support. That's why the rest of the female world is there for you. We are the trampoline that catches you when you fall. Turn to your best friend and tell her everything. If she really is your best friend, she'll probably offer to beat him up for you :). Personally, if a guy broke my friends heart, I would go up to him and say, "It's because your gay, isn't it?"
     Nothing against gay people of course. They're cool.
     So here's what you do...

1. Tell your best friend all about it.
2. Read a comedy
3. Watch a comedy
4. Watch a ton of chick flicks
5. Cry a lot and by a lot I mean a lot
6. Remember that it wasn't you
7. Eat tons of chocolate and not care whether you get fat or not until after
8. Go party with your girlfriends
9. Don't hide because of him
10. Always remember that YOU ROCK!!

     And here's a number of break-up songs:

1. Happy Ending by Avril Lavigne
2. So What by Pink
3. Gives You Hell by All American Rejects
4. If I Were A Boy by Beyonce
5. Apologize by Timbaland feat. One Republic
6. Picture to Burn by Taylor Swift

     And some power songs:

1. The Best Damn Thing by Avril Lavigne
2. Run The World by Beyonce
3. Single Ladies by Beyonce
4. What The Hell by Avril Lavigne
5. King of Anything by Sara Bareilles

     But of course, there's another type of heartbreak. Maybe it's not as... heart breaking or earth shattering as getting viciously dumped or something like that, but it's heartbreak all the same.
     Like finding out that the guy you like is dating your best friend. Or if your best friend started dating your ex. Or if your bf was cheating on you with your best friend... Now let's think of other things than being betrayed by our best friend. -_-
     Then there's that type of heartbreak where the guy didn't even hurt you. Maybe he died or got into an accident. Maybe you have to move away.
     There are plenty of different heartbreaks and not one of them is quite the same. But they all share a similar characteristic: pain. A throbbing in your chest and a sob in your throat. So we all make mistakes and we all support each other - what matters is that we learn from these mistakes.
     You all deserve to smile. So when you finally find the perfect guy, he'll say you're amazing and he'll mean it.

     And you'll feel like smiling.

    
But if you're having trouble with letting go, then listen to this song to break free.